Freedom From Finances The question I wish that survey had asked is this: What does wealth mean to you? Here at The Oxford Club, we (of course) want to help you add zeros to your bank account. But beyond that, we want you to live your best life socially, culturally, mentally and emotionally. Because wealth doesn't just bring you financial freedom... It brings you freedom from finances. Troubled by this survey's poor word choice, I reached out to our fearless Oxford Club leaders. Here's what they had to say in response to this question: What does wealth mean to you? Chief Trends Strategist Matthew Carr said... To me, wealth isn't merely about money or a fortune. It's about freedom. It's freedom from worry, freedom from anxiety, freedom from fear of the future. To me, the pursuit of wealth isn't about greed or accumulating more than anyone else; it's about actually allowing one to enjoy their time on this planet, being truly free to pursue what makes one happiest. Now, can you do that even if you're poor? Of course. But I've been poor and I've been wealthy, and I can tell you that you have more freedom being the latter.
Engineering Strategist David Fessler had his own view on wealth... There is a quote that [my wife], Anne, framed and gave to me as a gift back in 1988 when the two of us were still dating. "Wealth is not how much you have... or where you are going... or even what you are. Wealth is who you have beside you." And she's been by my side ever since, through both the good and the bad times. And I've had my share of bad times. I'm not sure who originally said this, but it hits home with me. All the money in the world won't make you any happier. Having the right person to share your life with is all the wealth you really need. The rest usually takes care of itself. That's not to say proper financial planning isn't important. But having a lot of money won't necessarily make you wealthy without someone to share your life with.
My Cup Runneth Over So I'll ask again... Are you wealthy? I'd argue that there's no price tag on wealth. If having a few extra zeros in your bank account gives you peace of mind... then that's worth more than the numbers on the screen. Sure, there are varying degrees of financial stability. We are often lumped into categories of "has no cash," "has some cash" and "has plenty of cash." And this lens affects how the government, our neighbors, our co-workers and our family members perceive us. But a statistic of perceived net worth is, well, worthless. You shouldn't feel "less than" or feel pressured to reach a certain net worth just because you think it's expected of you. Investing - as a practice - is a means to earn money. But that money is worthless if it's the only joy filling up your cup. Go forth and make money. Be rich! But, more importantly, be wealthy. Good investing, Rebecca P.S. What does wealth mean to you? Let me know in the comments. |
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