A young woman receiving end-of-life care says she is "just waiting to die" as an agonising three-year wait for a kidney transplant has left her "living like a prisoner". Diana Isajeva is one of approximately 7,000 patients who are on the waiting list, according to the NHS Blood and Transport service (NHSBT) – the highest figure in a decade. The 29-year-old was due to have a transplant last year but was denied it at the last minute, after the living donor she was matched with pulled out just 24 hours before her planned surgery. Data from NHSBT shows that the rate of families giving consent for their loved ones' organs to be donated has dropped – despite a change in the law in 2020 aimed at boosting the number of organs available, which means that consent for donation is now presumed after death. |
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Should we be concerned by the rise in choking during sex? |
It's impressive to me how many men have done it without checking," 29-year-old Anna* tells me, when I ask her how she feels about choking during sex. "I distinctly remember thinking 'I wonder what I responded to that read as consent to that?'. Was it rough kissing? Something else?" The thing is, Anna* isn't averse to choking, at least in theory. "There's no doubt that power and sex are related," she says. "We can all enjoy giving up power, taking it, feeling it". But, she stresses, "it has to be our power. You have to be choosing to play with it." In 2020, a national probability survey of Americans aged 18 to 60 years found that 21 per cent of women reported having been choked during sex. Twenty per cent of men reported that they had choked a partner during sex. What was striking, however, was the difference across age groups. The survey reported adults aged 18 to 29 engaging in choking at much higher rates than older adults. This apparent generational shift in sexual attitudes has been backed up a number of times, with another US survey finding that 58 per cent of female college students have been choked during sex, with a quarter having been choked by age 17. |
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| – Data for 2021-22 shows that just over 400 people died while waiting for an organ transplant, while more than 600 were taken off the list because they had become too ill for surgery. Read more here |
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