How to get past a common intimacy killer

The "bristle reaction" can make physical connection difficult.

View in browser|nytimes.com Continue reading the main story October 6, 2023 This is a preview of Well, a subscriber-only newsletter with essential news and guidance to live your healthiest life. Get it in your inbox. For couples in long-term relationships, the "bristle reaction" can make physical connection difficult, experts say. Illustration by Nicolás Ortega; Photograph by Getty Images Here's what the "bristle reaction" is, and how to get past it together. → Sign up for the Well newsletter, for Times subscribers only. Essential news and guidance to live your healthiest life. Get it in your inbox Continue reading the main story ADVERTISEMENT Continue reading the main story Need help? Review our newsletter help page or contact us for assistance. You received this message because you signed up for updates from The New York Times. To stop receiving From The Times, unsubscribe. To opt out of other promotional emails from The Times, including those regarding The Athletic, manage your email settings. To opt out of updates and offers sent from The Athletic, submit a request. Subscribe to The TimesGet The New York Times app Connect with us on: Change Your EmailPrivacy PolicyContact UsCalifornia Notices The New York Times Company. 620 Eighth Avenue New York, NY 10018